Thanks for taking the time to read this. I'm a 35 yr old BBW, submissive poly switch. I've been in the lifestyle for approximately 10 years now, in one form or another. I have an extended leather 'family' (mostly in the US) though some in the UK, whom I visit as much as time allows.A Friend asked me recently about what it was I wanted...in an ideal world..that said I'm currently not 'looking' though am happy to chat in general.Now I realise its not all about what I want and call me unrealistic but i guess i want it all, cos for the right person, thats what i am prepared to give.In an ideal world I want a best friend, lover and Dom. Someone who will allow me to serve them to the best of my ability knowing that i am happiest when i am pleasing others. (If they have 'DaddyDom' tendencies so much the better )Someone who understands that capturing my mind is as important as capturing my body, heart and soul; who can look across a room at me with no words spoken and 'get' to me..knowing that i am His. That said..its a rare person that makes me feel that i can allow my submissive side out. I need someone who has integrity and who i can trust and respect, someone who is 'stronger' than me....and yet knows the difference between Domineering and Dominating. I want to be able to let my guard down, to be able to share the darkests parts of me and for me to still feel safe.See...i don't want much really do i? lolWhoever and Wherever you are..thank you for reading..and i wish you well in your searchE x