34 single and like tall dark haired men with money to spend. no catches or strings attached. (from may 23 until june 4 i will be trying to catch up on work. i do try to respond to all emails so please do not take it personally if it takes me a while to return your response. thank you.)most of my emails ask the same questions so i will answer them here. no i don't do married men. i will chat and be friends but that is all.i don't do videos or photographs. when my child gets older i do not want one of his friends commenting about a movie his mother was in and the fact that i can stretch like stretch armstrong.no you cannot come over to my home. two of my brothers live with me and so does my son. the main reason i am here is due to the fact that i do not want men running in and out of my son's life...he does not deserve that..he did not ask to be here and protecting and taking care of him is my first priority in life. i go out, have my fun, then come home. end of story. besides, i do own security dogs and they love fresh meat.no, i will not talk dirty to you over the phone. a friend of mine owns a phone sex company and ran short on help one night and asked if i could help out. the entire six hours i was on the phone i could not stop laughing. i have a very vivid imagination and it tends to run amuck with humor if i try to talk dirty to anyone.as to ansewer the question what am i looking for, hell does any of us really know what we are looking for. friend with benefits and lets see where it goes from their.just because i mention the words fun and frolic in the same sentence does not mean i am looking to bed every man coming and going. i am picky about who i have sexual relations with. one night stands are fine every once in a while for okay sex, but sex is best when you know and are comfortable w/ your partner, at least it is for me.the most sensual thing a man can do for me is wash and brush my hair. most of you cannot even shave your own faces without nicks, don't even think of getting near my legs, or any other part with a razor.most of my friends are guys, i don't get into the back biting and verbal hazing that most women pull on each other. i rather live in a house with a hundred men than to have another women under my roof.i am outspoken and bold, but not rude.for the men who wright me telling me that they are the ones my mother warned my about, a little info here guys, most of the men i date start out non smokers non drinkers with average sex lives, by the time i get done with them they are in aa, sex addicts anymns, and smoking 3 pack of unfiltered pall malls a day. so you have been warned.i treat others the way i want to be treated. treat me like a piece of meat and you will find out that meat can fight back.and as far as sending me photos of your ding-a-lings, let me give you a little piece of advice, a hotdog with my favorit trimmings looks great when i'm hungry, but if i have to look at a hundred hots in a day, i loose my appetite. i learn much more about a person from their face. not to mention the fact that i'm tired of having nightmares about condms chasing me through a giant penis forest. so for the sake of my sleep, please send face pics.thank you for your emails and winks.take care and happy hunting.hammergirl