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| I am the happiest I have ever been |
| 06/24/2007 |
by cutie_patootie_5 |
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I never expected to meet the man of my dreams on a personals site, I first met Hank nervously after work one day and we hit it off so well we've hardly been apart since. The sex is amazing, the man is a working professional I have no idea how I would have met him otherwise. I am cancelling my membership but I recommend this site to all of my single girlfriends. Thankyou! Sarah
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| Writing an Ad for the Personals |
Whether you are looking sex or friendship the way you write your ad for the personals will greatly impact whether or not you will get any good ?bites.? The personals are after all just a place where humans have advertise themselves as a product. This is why before you put a personal ad together you need to sit down and make a list of all of your good points. You then need to be objective about yourself and determine what your strongest ?selling points? are. You then need to string all of that information and put into as few clear, succinct and precise sentences as possible.
Thankfully most online dating sites and online newspapers provide automated templates and questionnaires that act as guidelines so you can quickly create an ad for the personals. All you have to do really is fill them n.
You should also avoid using too many abbreviations such as U for you etc. It makes you look like you don?t have time for dating. It also may give the impression that you are a high school kid pretending to be a lot older.
Also try to use keywords that best describe you such as ?looking for marriage? or ?lonely gentlemen?. Stay away from phrases that are sexist or that puts people down. That kind of thing not only confuses your readers it also confuses the site?s search engines and makes it more difficult for likely prospects to find you.
When you are writing a personal ad or a profile it is important for you to describe yourself as truthfully as possible without coming outright and saying something like ?I just lost my job or I am recovering from cancer?
Most sites ask you for the basics. You need to supply hard data such as your height, weight, body type, eye color, religion, smoking preferences, educational background and profession.
In the body of your profile it is a good idea to describe any hobbies or interests that you may have and whether or not you are willing too travel. You don?t have to write your life story. Just write enough to pique someone else?s interest.
Try not to sound cynical or sarcastic (especially about love) or the typical woman will simply dismiss you as having bad vibes. Also don?t write any lines that put you down, even in a joking matter. Stay away from Joan Rivers style humor that belittles yourself.
As you compose your personal ad try to convey a description of yourself that is easily related to by other people. Good approaches include describing who you are, where you want to go in life, what makes you laugh, foods you enjoy, things you dislike and what your friends call you as a nickname.
You also wouldn?t buy a product from an ad that is misspelled so people may not buy ?you? if your profile is all sloppy. Be sure to check your profile for spelling and grammar mistakes as that are one-way people tend to judge a profile. There is a good chance that people reading your profile just might be more literate than you when it comes to the English language, especially if they are well educated.
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