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| I am the happiest I have ever been |
| 06/24/2007 |
by cutie_patootie_5 |
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I never expected to meet the man of my dreams on a personals site, I first met Hank nervously after work one day and we hit it off so well we've hardly been apart since. The sex is amazing, the man is a working professional I have no idea how I would have met him otherwise. I am cancelling my membership but I recommend this site to all of my single girlfriends. Thankyou! Sarah
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| What to do When Your Date Goes Bad |
There are two different types of bad dates. The one that you cannot wait to get home, and the kind that you hope you make it home. If you are ever meeting someone for the first time, let a friend know. Get them the information about the date, and set a time that they should call or text you to make sure you are okay. If they are going to send a text, have a secret code. Say for example, your friend sends a text, what color was the dress you bought last night? You reply green (everything is going great), yellow (date sucks, but no concerns for safety) or red (something is terribly wrong, get help). With a green or yellow response, have her text you again if you do not call her by an anticipated time, Did you buy shoes to match? Yes, means color is still the same, otherwise, you respond with, no they are. It may sound dumb now, after all you are sitting on the couch, but if you were afraid for your life it wouldn't sound so bad. Tell the person holding you hostage that if you do not answer, your friend knows to call 9-1-1; it allows you a chance for survival. Again, you do not know the person you are meeting; you only know what they have told you.
So, assuming you are not going to be feed to any sharks, and you still have your free will, let?s go over some possible outs.
1. Do not say you left some thing turned on at home. You are only insulting their intelligence. My favorite motto is Be honest, and if you cannot be honest, be creative. Saying you just got a bad case of diarrhea is fantastic. As gross as you feel saying it, they will feel grosser hearing it. This removes any idea of sex from their thoughts. Do not be too sick though, this can make them feel obligated to get you home safely.
2. Say that you have a big day tomorrow, and would like to call it a night. This is fairly honest and not demeaning. Your definition of a big day may not be the same as theirs. Saying you have something specific can lead you into trouble. If you ever see this person again, or they have a mutual friend, it will be very difficult to keep up the charade.
3. If you still cannot get your point across, politely excuse your self from the date. Let the other person know the date is not quite what you had anticipated. You have been under a lot of pressure at work, and you feel like you are not giving the date a fair chance. By putting blame back on something in your life, you let them know you are not interested, but you do not put them on the defensive.
What ever you do to get out of a date from hell, try to avoid excuses yourself to bathroom, and running for dear life. This is only your Incase of Emergency Break Glass technique. It is always an option, but image the poor sap after an hour of waiting for you to return, only to be told by the waiter that you left. This is how you get a bad reputation, and hate mail.
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