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| I am the happiest I have ever been |
| 06/24/2007 |
by cutie_patootie_5 |
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I never expected to meet the man of my dreams on a personals site, I first met Hank nervously after work one day and we hit it off so well we've hardly been apart since. The sex is amazing, the man is a working professional I have no idea how I would have met him otherwise. I am cancelling my membership but I recommend this site to all of my single girlfriends. Thankyou! Sarah
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| What a Woman Wants |
You may think that unlocking the code to a woman's needs is impossible, but it may be the simplest thing you have ever heard. It is applying it that is tricky. If you follow a few suggestions, you may be very pleased with the results.
A woman wants to be independent. She wants to convince herself she does not need anyone. This is absurd, everyone needs someone. However, she still insists if the world blew up and she was the only human that somehow survived, that she would be just fine. You must let her think that. This is very important, if you do not, she will prove it to you, and you will be left alone not knowing what the heck just happened.
A woman wants to be taken care of. I know you think this contradicts the first need, but it really doesn't. This is where men tend to get confused. She really does want you to take care of her, and pay for things. You need to understand that she doesn't need you to do this; she wants you to help her. A need and a want are two different things. Even if she has no job, no house and no car other than what you have provided, it doesn't matter. If you start to act like she needs you to take care of her, she will again prove you wrong.
A woman needs to be able to be a woman. This applies mainly to moms. For 24 hours a day 7 days a week, she is a mom. She starts to lose her identity and sexual appeal. Maybe not in your eyes, but in hers and that is just as bad. She now assumes you no longer find her sexy. Sure, she knows you would have sex with her, you are a man, but do you crave her? Do you dream about her? She is so busy taking care of everyone that she forgets to take care of herself. It is very important to let her be your woman. Take her to somewhere nice and let her get dressed up. You don't have to go often, but do it for no reason. Get the kids together and take them to the sitters for her. A small break can be very rewarding.
Finally, a woman is under pressure. She needs to be able to tell you what is wrong. Without you offering a solution. See men are problem solvers by nature. They take things apart just so they can fix them. Women need to work through things. If something breaks, they want to know why it broke, what damage it may have caused, how to stop it from happening again, and so on. A man cannot grasp this, they want to just fix it and continue on. Apply this same analogy to life. Her friend is made at her. You tell her to get a new friend. She starts yelling at you. You are now confused. Now think of her mind works. She is trying to figure out why her friend is mad, how she can fix it, and how to make sure it doesn?t happen again, all while calling her friend every name in the book.
The best advice when it comes to women is to listen. Do not pretend you are listening this will make things worse. If they complain, say you?re sorry. Even if you couldn?t care less that her nail color is the wrong color, just sympathize.
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