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| I am the happiest I have ever been |
| 06/24/2007 |
by cutie_patootie_5 |
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I never expected to meet the man of my dreams on a personals site, I first met Hank nervously after work one day and we hit it off so well we've hardly been apart since. The sex is amazing, the man is a working professional I have no idea how I would have met him otherwise. I am cancelling my membership but I recommend this site to all of my single girlfriends. Thankyou! Sarah
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| The Reality of Online Dating |
One of the biggest mistakes regarding online dating is that people forget it is still dating. You still need the pick up lines, there is still a chance he wont call the next day, and these are the same people you could meet in a bar, they are just more accessible. The only change is you don?t have to get dressed up to talk to them. You can sit in your PJ's and send Instant Messages until you decide there is someone worth getting dressed up for.
Men still have a one-track mind, and some women are still overly clingy or high maintenance. The only thing you have to remember is people are who they are, only the place has changed. One of the biggest complaints of users from matchmaker sites is that they have not found love. While some sites claim to be cupid, they cannot create your soul mate. You cannot fall in love just because you want to. You can date all you want, but at some point there has to be some sort of reality that dating websites are not magic. They allow singles to talk to other singles, nothing more and nothing less.
Even the compatibility test I find to be nonsense. By answering questions about your self, it does not mean that someone with different likes isn't compatible to you. It only means they are different. Sometimes opposites really do attract. If you find fun in the site, just as you would by going to a bar to try to meet someone, then it is worth it. You wouldn?t blame a bar because you didn't get a marriage proposal by last call, would you?
The expensive sites are just that. They are expensive. You should not have to pay a ridiculous amount of money for false hope. By advertising that if you don?t find your true love, they will extend your membership complimentary is a gimmick. It is in hopes that after the said time frame you will just give up, and they are not out anything.
If you believe in destiny, then rest assured there is someone out there looking for you too. You just have to find them. Sitting back and waiting for the world to happen to you is not going to work. You can be proactive, but there are limitations to what you can control. Patience is virtue, and the best things in life are worth waiting for. These clichs did not get created because everyone got what they wanted when they wanted it.
Keep up your search and do not give up. The people that end up settling for less tend to become unhappy. They become so set on having a relationship, they decide they will take who ever comes their way and try to change them. This is a waste of time. In the long run, it will not work out. It is situations like this that give love a bad name, it is not love; it is lust for companionship.
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