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| I am the happiest I have ever been |
| 06/24/2007 |
by cutie_patootie_5 |
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I never expected to meet the man of my dreams on a personals site, I first met Hank nervously after work one day and we hit it off so well we've hardly been apart since. The sex is amazing, the man is a working professional I have no idea how I would have met him otherwise. I am cancelling my membership but I recommend this site to all of my single girlfriends. Thankyou! Sarah
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| How To Get the Most Out of a Dating Website |
Stating that dating websites really do work, is not saying that Prince Charming is going to fall out of the sky. What it means is that the website gives you the opportunity to increase your odds of finding him. The more websites you belong to, the greater the population of singles you are exposed to. Whatever you do, do not quit your job to sit on the computer 24 hours a day to find him. There are however some tactics that help you to find him even if you are not online when he is.
First, in your profile make yourself fun. Do not try to over do it so it looks like you are into things that actually bore you to tears. Showcase your lighter side. You want to find someone that finds you appealing, not their mirror image.
Second, do not over do your picture. Do not go to Glamour Shots and pay $300 for them to make you look nothing like yourself. Unless you were as much make-up as a super model everyday. You can however run to Wal-Mart in your hitting the town attire and get that picture taken. For less than $10 you have a good quality picture of you. If you do not do this there is a good chance that you will never actually meet him. You will tell him to be at Starbucks at 2:30 and you will be wearing a red shirt. He walks in and sees no one that looks even remotely like the picture he saw and walks out, even if he did realize it was you.
Third, if you do not want to go all out for a picture, at least make sure it is current. Again, if you used to be 150 lbs, but are now pushing 200, be proud of it. If you are not how is he to accept it? If you are really that ashamed, join a gym or start doing some exercise and get off the computer. Who knows you may bump into someone while you are actually out in public.
Lastly, you have to sound interesting. If you are not sure how to do that, put an ad on Craigslist, offer $20 for someone to take your profile and make it intriguing. It is easy money for someone qualified and you can get a huge return on your investment. Be honest with the profile though. Leave up to them how to touch base on your flaws without making you sound like Quasimodo. If you do not like this suggestion, what ever you do, do not put a mediocre effort into your profile. This is the virtual you. This is what people see about you, you cannot advertise yourself telekinetically.
Once you have your profile in place, go explore. See who is out there. You are in sole control, because all they know is what you have told them. If you need to talk to six guys at first, by all means drink some coffee and call out sick tomorrow. Just keep your expectations real.
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