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| I am the happiest I have ever been |
| 06/24/2007 |
by cutie_patootie_5 |
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I never expected to meet the man of my dreams on a personals site, I first met Hank nervously after work one day and we hit it off so well we've hardly been apart since. The sex is amazing, the man is a working professional I have no idea how I would have met him otherwise. I am cancelling my membership but I recommend this site to all of my single girlfriends. Thankyou! Sarah
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| Casual Sex |
Sometimes referred to as emotional anorexia? casual sex denies you any sort of emotional connection. In a world of adult dating and adult personals being highly accessible it is like taking a recovering alcoholic to a bar. It feeds into the emotionally shallow and those with commitment phobias. Why should they ever be forced to face their fears, when they can create a world that abides by their rules? No emotion, no attachment, and no fear of rejection virtual reality has crept into the real world. With a once not-so-fine-line separating fantasy from reality, the sex dating phenomenon has managed to almost deplete the gap between the two.
Some people believe the craze has been formed due to the borderline obsession with the show Sex & the City. An unrealistic show that utilizes everyday scenarios to put a twist on reality is misleading to the female population. With women wanting their Prince Charming and constantly having to live up to the expectations of the Cinderella stories they grew up on, it is no wonder that a meaningless fling can sound appealing from time to time. Women are raised to set certain and sometimes unobtainable standards for themselves. By sex dating, they can have no standards, and just focus on their personal pleasure.
Have a mental break from societies can be liberating. It can be necessary for some women to feel like a woman, and not have to be a lady. She can get a much-needed breath of fresh air. For other women, the thought in itself is nothing shy of disgusting. How could someone have self respect, and allow for something so casual? The other think, how could someone have self respect and not allow your self to enjoy life from time to time, and give into your desires? For these women, relationships are not generally a problem. However, I believe more and more the shows like Sex & the City are giving women the false impression of dating in general.
As far as men are concerned, they are lead by their inner self?. Men are known to live in the now, and ask questions later. They are impulsive and more self-driven than the fairer sex. For them, they could have a one-night stand it doesn't hold the same shallowness that it does for a woman. I believe this to be very sexist, but society accepts it to be this way.
When you browse through an adult dating site, and look through the adult personals, you will see both sexes. Both struggling to calm their desires. (whether it is a matchmaking site or an adult site.) The main differential lies in the reasoning and perception of the relationship. I am not saying that a relationship could not come from an adult site, but there is a much more openness and casualness. It would definitely be the exception and not the rule. The matchmaking sites glamorize the possibility to find your soul mate. With nothing but a broken illusion, there are a lot of people who become disappointed. The unemotional stay emotionless and the love seekers strive to find their mate.
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